Relationships Are Hard – I’ll Just Ride My Bike. I’ve said that too much recently, but it’s true.
My divorce is final as of Monday. I found out yesterday, and got the paperwork today.
I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what could be done differently. I’m done thinking about it now. It feels like self-flagellation, and I don’t want to do that anymore.
When I talk to people about it they seem torn between saying “I’m sorry” and “Congratulations!”. It’s kind of funny. In reality it’s just closure and that’s a good thing.
I get the same reaction. I’m just glad it is now done. We sure didn’t go into this 2 yrs ago to be where we are now. We have a great respect for each other that is rare in a divorce.